Most of the common telltale
signs that you are in love are the following: heart that palpitates even if you
do not have a heart problem, loss of sleep even if you are not insomniac, loss
of appetite even if you are not dieting etc. And yet, let me show you some of
my personal and therefore undeniable basis of true love.
We’re willing to do something that really
we don’t usually do.
Eating something that will turn our guts upside down or even induce puking
is a big sacrifice for the one you love. You believe that even with all the
differences between you and your partner, there is a room for adapting to each
other’s likes and dislikes.
The desire to do such thing is incomparable. Because at first, adjusting
your daily way of life for her is already a pain in the ass. But showing that
you can will tell her that you are
patient enough to change your ways and even your taste to anything that your
partner wanted. And to her it really means a lot. At this point, you and your
partner are in synced with each other.
We’re willing to explain why we badly
wanted each enough not to date others.
There are many fishes in the sea. Do we even think that by this time we
already lured an incredibly unique kind of creature?
The one that we choose to love right now might be the one that will stand
the test of time. So cherish them, show
them your love and touch theirs hearts.
Why we don’t want to date others? In a circumstance like this, would you
still think of a reason of leaving the loving arms of your chosen one? ZERO,
NONE, NOTHING. No reason at all!
We’re willing to spend even if we’re
thrifty and save money although we’re a spender.
They say money makes the world go round. Definitely it is. But in the
real-world of love, we learn to handle money well and smart. Why? We spend not
only for ourselves but also for our partner.
We can buy anything for them knowing that it’s not in your budget. We
also learn how to curb our expenditures just to show that we have the patience
and purpose to do so. All for the ones we love. With them and for them, everything becomes
priceless.
We’re
willing to only look forward. (future)
We always say the phrase “past is past” when someone is bringing up the past memories.
In a strong relationship, it is best that past relationships be set
aside, just forget and simply move on. True love doesn’t step backward and stay
in the past. We must always look forward.
I believe when you found a great love, there is no reason to look back anymore.
Because I believe that the past is now
just a memory and the future, a journey.
A relationship has a long and winding road. We don’t know what’s ahead. The thought is not
how hard and tiring the journey is but how well can you both travel together.
Being in love doesn’t stop not even until death. The point that you are willing
to be with your partner towards tomorrow I must say is the most amazing thing
in determining true love.
The idea of doing nothing together ending
up to be the most terrific one!
At a period in dating, there is this urge to find out who this person is.
Moreover, we also feel scared because they may not be what you want or for
worse, we may not be what they are looking for.
Even though the stakes are very high, we still find ourselves pushing on
with the relationship. And when we are already committed, we tend to do
something all the time either in public and private. But when the idea of doing
nothing together becomes awesome, we’ve gone through those stages even in good
and bad times. We are now in the state of being contented.
The relationship is now fully cemented with the partners proud to have
reached this stage. In fact the “normal” life has expanded to include your
partner in it. And the idea of simply just being together is a delightful thing
that is happening to both of your lives.